Tangled teenager

C LOSING CHOICES The story is a story itself until and unless we want to be a character in it. And if your character prevails a strong disposition than perfectly people are going to love you in your story.  Opening the door of your heart if you allow a person to enter in then you are perfectly in love until you make them happy to abide for a long. If you have an amazing job to do you perfectly are happy. And that's your story basically. But what if you are not what you were. You lost yourself but won in front of others. This win is never going to fetch you happiness but still, we are just ready for it as we cant and never go against society and nor did anyone! Has love given us freedom or we just thought that its high time we have been alone so why not share some hopes, secrets, dreams, fears, and doubts. And restrict the other opposite partner from doing all those things they always wanted to do with us. So basically we ruined their life as we got them dragged to our heart saying ...

It's a  Lockdown, not a Lockup! The lockdown is uncertainly going to affect many people in different ways but some people are wanting this lockdown to have an effect on their lives. There were people who always wanted to stay home but never thought about this chance. Many moms out there are having the best staycation as they break the stereotype of making their daughters do the household chaos alone and maybe we are the last generation who saw the gender bais and heading towards the spoken gender equality. And obviously, the working dad's came to know how nasty their kids are. The old grandparents whom we would visit every weekend are now staying with us and teaching us the meaning of life which none of the books taught us. The gaping of Ramayan was incomplete without the oldies telling us the jist before the episode. Lockdown made some bad chefs try their hands on many dishes and made their family time wish list not be a wish anymore. Many told their kids about how they wo...

D epressed  D astard After every step towards being a good child to being a good teenager, we cried, frowned and at the same time lost our old self. We were the child who wanted to be a topper since we were treated like a royal kid so being a topper or first in everything might give happiness surely to our parents but not us sometimes. Still, we wanted to be like our parents, and not police because of his uniform and not the pilot because of sitting in the airplane for the first time and not the actor since they can change their clothes within seconds on screen, fall in love with their crush and not the doctor because of his cool looks, the white coat and a not the news reporter as they look beautiful or handsome on the television every day,  We all thought that they were what we saw but the reality is near us when we are in the process of being one. All we come to know that being parents like our parents is not that simple when you are struggling to be one and being ...

J ealous J awaani ! Who are we not jealous of ? What things done by other doesn't make us jealous ? Everyone who is jealous, does not necessarily know the spelling of jealous ! Let's not get jealous of the jealous people around us because feeling jealous might make you jealous. Everything in our life is been taught to us since childhood when we were kids but you know what, we never learnt or were made to learn how to be jealous or  make ourselves jealous of others who are much advanced then us in the things we do or are willing to do. Competition led by our parents leads to the first step towards been jealous. A friend of our gets maximum marks then you got, is a step of getting progress in process of been jealous of our friends, so basically it's our day to day life achievements that led us to the elevator of jealousy. Some friends, some neighbours, some family friends and most importantly the relatives all play an important role in getting success in the f...

The child-like parenting  Not every parent is the same and so is not every child.  Children grow up very fast this is what every parent thinks but they forget that they grow along with their kids too.  When we grow up the only most important people in our life are our friends and not our loving parents because they stop us from doing the wrong things and meeting and messing up with the wrong people.  But our friends are our only support and strength, some friends encourage us to get involved in a fight with our own parents.   While fighting with parents we forget all their love and presence for us and we make them count all the things that they couldn't do for us the whole time.  Our truths become lie when they are treated as a lie. We regret things when we are allowed to think about it.  Some things are just so way apart between us and our parents that those gaps can never be filled without understandings and love.  While in the proces...

F abricator friends The true friends and true stories were a long back buried as our parents grew up.  Friends are not friends until they have some work with you, ya this is what our college life teaches us isn't it?   That's the only reason why I don't make many friends.  School days taught me that life is fair in love and war but college days taught me that life isn't fair at all.  You know like, things are incomplete if you don't have a friend and some things are also complete without them.    Friends are our needs not necessity as, it's our way of thinking and handling situations in our life.   There are many different kinds of friends with a same intention that is to be a step front then you.   Time and days get you many friends and that's what takes them away too.  We know that there is no 'best friend' as so they are labelled, this word is just for our own satisfactory that there is someone more in our l...