Purblind Parents

The child-like parenting 


Not every parent is the same and so is not every child.  Children grow up very fast this is what every parent thinks but they forget that they grow along with their kids too.  When we grow up the only most important people in our life are our friends and not our loving parents because they stop us from doing the wrong things and meeting and messing up with the wrong people.  But our friends are our only support and strength, some friends encourage us to get involved in a fight with our own parents.   While fighting with parents we forget all their love and presence for us and we make them count all the things that they couldn't do for us the whole time.  Our truths become lie when they are treated as a lie. We regret things when we are allowed to think about it.  Some things are just so way apart between us and our parents that those gaps can never be filled without understandings and love.
 While in the process of making us matures and a good human being our parents just forgot to encourage our small wins, and that's the reason why we never attempt to make big achievements.

Why do we overthink over small things and make the understanding of those things wrong?

Why can't we just live life with the flow?

Why do we blame our parents for what they aren't responsible for?

Why do we expect so much from our parents?

Why do we compare them in our minds with our friend's parents?

Why can't we actually be happy and satisfied with the kind of parents we have?

These questions are never going to end but these can be answered for sure.
Life gave us amazing parents, we get many books out there which taught us to be a good child but why aren't there any books which taught how to be good parents because there are no perfect parents out there. Ya, life might not have given you perfect parents but still, it gave you a perfect life to live.
There are a few things that our parents are never going to understand because we aren't also going to understand a few things that they want us to understand!

"When we grow up, our parents treat us as matures,  then why do we treat them as kids?"                                                                                                              -tangled teenager

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