Depressed dastard

Depressed Dastard


After every step towards being a good child to being a good teenager, we cried, frowned and at the same time lost our old self. We were the child who wanted to be a topper since we were treated like a royal kid so being a topper or first in everything might give happiness surely to our parents but not us sometimes. Still, we wanted to be like our parents, and not police because of his uniform and not the pilot because of sitting in the airplane for the first time and not the actor since they can change their clothes within seconds on screen, fall in love with their crush and not the doctor because of his cool looks, the white coat and a not the news reporter as they look beautiful or handsome on the television every day, 
We all thought that they were what we saw but the reality is near us when we are in the process of being one. All we come to know that being parents like our parents is not that simple when you are struggling to be one and being a pilot is not as easy as taking a toy plane in our hands and throwing it from a certain height and being police is not as easy as wearing the rented uniform of the policeman for a fancy dress competition and being a lover of our childhood crush is not as easy as shown in movies or maybe your crushes parents make you his or her sibling forever and being a doctor is not as easy as wearing the lab coat in 10th practicals for 40 minutes 2 days a week as for being one we need a whole lifetime to study a single book with many editions and versions. 

Life never helps us though it knows that we are going to face many problems from the day we thought to be in one of the professions for our future life but instead, it always indicated that it is never going to be easy ahead as you chose it, it didn't choose you.

We always blamed our childhood that it was waste as we wasted a lot of time in the kinder garden junior and senior class but we never understood that those were there the only class that made us understand what we are good at and never forced us to do anything and nothing was greater expected by us more than our ability to do things. Every child was allowed to color their favorite cartoon in their own way of thinking strength, and most importantly those things were appreciated in every house by every parent which made them think that their kids are so brilliants in their own way.
Everything seems so dreamy when we think about the cool things that happened in our childhood but it's just dreamy because it can't happen right now anymore, why?
Because we were kids at that time! ya, this is what we heard while growing 
or 
while grew up listening to this because listening to this was made compulsory

Society plays an important role in our life because we are going to choose careers according to them and also keeping the rules made by them in our minds, later on, we are going to pay them for our success and also for failures and ya that's what makes us acknowledge that the society is just a few people who will always be a headache alarm that would talk good about you when are good and talk bad when you are bad and if you cut off from them they would spread the words about you which are totally new to you. 

And this is when you are a depressed dastard who is helpless and can't ask for any help anymore and fall prey to society's trap. 
If you are aiming to be something but you are not able to get success then that is not the end of your life, you should never forget that you always have a choice to be what you want to be. 
It's you who is going to be paid and not your parents.
It's you who is going to be happy and not your neighbors.
It's you who is going to do the work and not your friends.
It's you who is going to face the difficulties and not your social media friends or followers

In our life, there are up down but when you are up to don't forget that you can fall down too and if you are down don't forget to lookup!

                         "Something isn't worth it until you make them." 
                                                                                                                    -tangled teenager 

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