Searching for who's happy

 

Searching for who's happy

In a world where we need to find our happiness, instead, we just jump on what all others have in their life for being happy. When did being happy for others become so abnormal for us?
There was a time when the people who were known as well as the unknown would get into the happiness of others without questioning how, what, and when. It used to all be in the moment. But now if someone finds you a bit happy or even self-satisfied at any point they won't hesitate for once to ask you about how and what has led you to such a happy phase in life. Let's not restrict this to happiness or sadness but yes finding others happy does make some people jealous of the fact that you are happy and are at your best but they will also doubt your deservedness which only belongs to you. 

Rather be it that tough to accept or too hard to say but we turned ourselves into less human beings every day passing on now. We are surely not at the fault to be blamed, it the generation of having big isolated houses with separate doors, big windows at height, more gadgets for connectivity and lack of interest in others' life situations, all this has changed our perspective of trusting others who belong to or don't belong to us. Maybe we needed this change for good but created a disaster art out of it. But all this was a part to be the truth that's harsh in reality. Let's not skip the fact that we all tend to trust outsiders rather than the ones closest and again thanks to the technology that made us do this and we blame people for changing themselves in quotes on stories. 
But does this all give us any self-pleasure or fetch us any good? Are we leaving humanity to the humans and expecting others to be what we don't want to be anymore? Do we need to be unhappy with others' happiness and excellence? Don't we need to play any good role in others' life? 
Or should we skip to the good part?

The good part is you reading this article for yourself to be happy about others' success, dreams, achievements, milestones, positivity, and behavior, and for being chosen by them to share the good piece of their life with you and without judging you on any basis. 
Say it when you like it,
Show it when you love it,
Share it when you mean it, 
Keep it when you care about it! 
and also just don't keep it to yourself because clapping for others, makes a space for you to get claps in return at your happiest point. 


"Trust me if you can make someone smile, you can have the world's best laugh!"

                                -tangledteenager



















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